The children are all in bed, the laundry is in the dryer, and I’m finally able to sit in peace after this Thanksgiving weekend has once again passed. I’m finally able to share with you our experience at the Ronald McDonald House Charities this past week! Have you heard of the Ronald McDonald House? There are over 280 Ronald McDonald Houses all over the world. And they provide more than just a place for families to stay…
What I wanted to do this year was to start a tradition with our family. I’ve always wanted to take the children to feed the hungy or go to a soup kitchen of some sort. But, my youngest is only 4, so I had to reconsider a place where he would also feel comfortable and also help out. So, after some research, the Ronald McDonald House’s Share-A-Meal program was the perfect solution. We would feed the families there while we feed our own family’s “souls”. Each year, I’ve wrestled with the idea of wanting to increase the awareness of the children that there is more to the holiday season than receiving gifts. I wanted them to learn how to “think outside the box” and see what else is going on in the world.
The Share-A-Meal program is where a family, several families, any group really makes a meal for the families who are staying at the house. The house we chose was located on 2201 Alden Rd. nearby Florida Children’s Hospital on the corner of Princeton St. and Alden Rd. The other is located on the Arnold Palmer Medical Center campus on Kuhl Avenue. The Ronald McDonald House Charities (RMHC) purpose is “to provide a home away from home for families with seriously ill, critically injured or chronically ill children who are being treated at local hospitals and medical facilities. ”
2201 Alden Rd. is an incredible Ronald McDonald House Charities home! It is a beautiful yellow with three stories and a wrap around porch on two levels. Of course, there is a Christmas tree out in the front lawn next to the sign. Inside it is even more impressive. There are 22 rooms that are each decorated with a theme donated by businesses, patrons, families throughout Central Florida. For example, there is an Orlando Magic Room and a Jungle themed room. Everything inside has a light, joyful feeling attached to it to help with the healing process. The laundry room, the playroom, the reading room, everything was just gorgeous and had an inviting homelike feeling! The reading room had shelves of books donated by Borders and the aquarium was donated by Sea World. Absolutely beautiful!!!
We spent most of our time in the huge kitchen. ( This is the kitchen of any gourmet cook’s dreams!) It had three stoves, two ovens, two sinks, a gigantic island, seating for about 30 in the dining area, and two huge refrigerators. Out in the hall were more refrigerators (one was marked “Breastmilk ONLY”) and a pantry for cans and other items. (My son said the kitchen was like the kitchen you see in Food Network.) There are 22 rooms in this house, so about 40 people or so would be full capacity. On one of the walls were pictures of the infants (as little as 2.0 pounds) and children who had stayed at the house.
I asked my friend, Karen Rupert and her family to come help feed the families and she readily agreed! So, she, her two children and her parents from Michigan were with the five of us ready to cook. We decided to serve chicken ( all premarinated in three different marinades-barbecue, cajun, and sesame ginger), rice, salad, and for dessert, yummy Rice Krispie Treats!!! By the way, just an FYI, to feed 40 people with two pieces of chicken apiece, we estimated purchasing about 12 pounds of chicken each. That’s a lot of chicken!
But, the most incredible part were the families we met! There were two families from Italy! Both of their sons coincidently were receiving therapy at Florida Hospital. One of the boys slowly made his way onto Troy’s lap while we were cooking in the kitchen. It was in a matter of minutes that the aroma of dinner was wafting into the halls. By the time the 6:30 pm dinner announcement was made, several families were already there!
Dinner was served buffet style and we were able to “Share-A-Meal” with them and eat with them. We were told that the families who stayed normally stayed at the house for an average of two weeks. Some stay as long as 6-8 months! All they ask is a $15 donation /night/family. However, if that is a financial hardship, they are still allowed to stay.. free of charge.
The assistant manager, Suzanne Cain told us that 80% of the Ronald McDonald House Charities homes’ expenses are paid purely by donations by businesses, families, patrons. Everything they need… laundry detergent, toilet paper, plates, dishwashing liquid, you name it… it’s been donated. We were happy to hear the other 20% of their expenses are provided by the the local McDonald’s restaurants profits. So, if you are looking to find a place to donate much needed items or just to volunteer your time, this is the place to be! Marsha was the volunteer who was there that night and she said she loves it! All they ask is for you to volunteer 2 two-hour shifts/month. All you do is stuff you’d normally do at your own home. It truly is like a family away from home.
It did take quite a bit of planning to coordinate the food, transporting it, what to cook ahead of time and what to cook there, explaining to the children what the Ronald McDonald House Charities was and what they may see/experience there. Would we do it again? You betcha! Being there really made our own families meet other children who are ill, in a wheelchair, or have an oxygen tank. This is a great opportunity to discuss topics you otherwise may never have a chance to.
It also taught them that be thankful for what they have and for something we all take for granted until it is taken away or there is an issue… our health. They learned to think about others and how to take care of others with something as simple as Rice Krispie Treats!
I strongly encourage you to look in your own ciites. If cooking for an entire house of 40-60 people may be daunting for you, you can bake cookies or banana bread. Bake 2 or 3 dozen or a couple of loaves of bread. They will welcome it wholeheartedly as it sits on the counter for anyone in the house to eat. Or, when you go to the grocery store, pick up a couple of extra bottles of dishwashing liquid and paper towel rolls and drop them by with the children.
Gather up your family members, church group, girls scout troops, or any group you can think of to come help not only during this holiday season, but throughout the entire year. These families need YOU during their time of need. What an incredible way to help another family with something as simple as soap or your time. This is a fantastic tradition to start in your own homes…
Thanks to all those who volunteer at all the Ronald McDonald Houses! And all our blessings to the families and children who stay warm in each of the Ronald McDonald Houses throughout the world. You are in our prayers always.
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